Do you ever ask questions that make no sense?
I ran into someone at the Paul McCarney concert last fall.
I looked at her and said, "What are you doing here?"
That was not a smart question.
I would have answered by saying, "I dropped my phone and I was hoping to find it here." Or, "I don't know, a strange force brought me here."
People are always very helpful when I am looking for something.
"Where was the last place you put it?" If I knew that, I probably would not be looking for it.
I am always tempted to truthfully answer the, "How are you?" I often get.
I usually say fine.
I should say, "I have trouble sleeping, every muscle in my body seems to hurt, I can't see as well as I'd like, my hearing is not so good, I am losing my hair, gaining too much weight, and I can't pass a bathroom plus I have boils the size of baseballs on my butt. How are you?"
But I don't. I say fine. Or Ok.. People really don't want that much information.
When I am in a store and a clerk asks, "Can I help you?" I always want to ask if they are a certified psychiatrist. If they aren't, then they really can't help me.
Sometimes I think I am beyond help.
Peace and Love