Wednesday, April 15, 2026

wild times

This has been a wild day 


    Severe thunderstorm warnings, watches, flood watches, tornado warnings and watches.....my weather radio is getting another workout!

    It seems we are in a pattern of strong storms

    Last night about 10 we had pea sized hail.  But folks around us had quarter sized hail.  (Ok, tell me:  Is it pea size or pea sized?)

    I have to ask a meteorologist why there are so many severe thunderstorms in the Lena, Winslow, Stockton, Freeport area.  It seems every time the toner sounds, it involves those areas. Tonight a tornado warning went up for Ogle County, but it was for a small area of north central part of the county, north of where Julia is.

    Julia was over and started to leave about 4 when Emily called and said there was a tornado warning for the Oregon area. Seems a severe thunderstorm was located between Oregon and Chana, which means Julia would have had to drive through it to get home.

    So we stood out in the driveway and watched the clouds.

    I think that is how you tell a true Midwesterner.  During a tornado warning we go out to look.  Probably not the wisest thing to do.

    And again, nights like this (Severe thunderstorm warning until sometime after 10) I kind of wish I had sprung for the $10,000 steel tornado shelter that can be erected in the garage.  But I didn't.  And won't.  I will just take our chances that storms will pass us.

    Jackie had an MS doc appointment in Rolling Meadows today.

    Usually we would contact sister Judy and meet for lunch, but I did not want to get stuck in traffic after a 2 p.m. appointment and lunch somewhere.

    It's a nice appointment.  She has been going to him almost since being diagnosed with MS.  All he actually does is talk and answer questions, because at Jackie's age there is not really a lot to be done for MS.  But just talking to him is comforting.

    He had a student with him, and he told her that he has seen several MS patients from Rochelle.  I can think of 9 who currently have MS.  No known cure, no known cause, all ideas are being explored.

    Hopefully someday they can find a cure, or. cause.  It won't benefit Jackie, but if people can be spared the heart ache this causes, all the money put toward research will be worth it.

    I hate driving on the expressways in the suburbs.  I was doing 70 in a 60 mph zone and people were passing me like I was standing still!

    If the state wants to solve some budget issues, put up speed cameras on the interstates and tollways.    I bet they could pay a lot of bills just on the traffic in the Naperville area.

    Now, all I have to do is fold laundry and watch the weather.  Sleep will be difficult tonight.

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace


Tuesday, April 14, 2026

timed out

Nothing lasts forever

    I have found that out the past 2 days.

    I finally got my shelf up.  But it was a challenge.

    Here's how it should go:  Find the studs, screw in a bracket, level the next bracket, install second bracket, cut 4 ft. of shelving, notch shelving for electric  cords, mount shelving.

    Easy peasy.

    Here is how it went.

    Find stud, start to put screw in wall.  Battery dies.  Second battery will not charge.  30 minutes later, battery is ready.  Jackie can't find check register to balance checking account.  It was on the dining room table with other banking papers but someone stacked everything and now the register is missing.

    40 minutes later, I return to the shelf project. 

    Put the first bracket up, find stud for second bracket, make sure brackets are level, install second bracket.

    The license plate renewal form is also missing.  Back into the house to look for that.  After going through all the piles, I return to shelf project.

    I put the shelving board on the golf cart, measure 4 ft, draw a straight line, start to cut board with my electric powered circular saw.

    Saw runs for 5 seconds and stops.  I press the trigger and button again.  Saw runs for 5 seconds and stops.

    I have now cut about 2 inches into the 12 in board.

    Start the saw again.  This time it runs for about 10 seconds before dying. I check the power cord.  I check the connection.

    I turn the saw on again and it doesn't run at all.

    I say a few choice words and try again, this time it runs for several seconds.

    It took me 10 minutes to cut through the board.  But I did it.

    Then I attempted to put V notches in the back to slide the cords down to the outlet.  Saw does not cooperate.

    Finally I finish!  I  put the shelf in place and put the battery chargers on the shelf.

    I discover I can not see the lights that indicate the batteries are charged because the shelf is too high.

    Took down the brackets.  Remounting them was a lot faster the second time.  And the battery chargers are now on a level where I can see them, so I am counting the project a success, despite the numerous extra holes in the wall.

    I have had the circular saw for decades, so it is no surprise it is near death.  And the drill?  DeWalt no longer stocks the batteries I need.  I think I was still teaching when I bought it.  There are batteries available on the secondary market, but I don't think it's worth buying some.  I will just use the one battery I have for the extremely few times I need a drill.

    Do I just toss the saw?  

    When I finished picking up doggie doo and filling the bird feeders, I was really sweaty!

    But we still have not found the register or the license plate renewal form.

    Guess I will keep looking, but damn, this is getting old!

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace

Monday, April 13, 2026

double damn

 I am having a frustrated pity party tonight


    I have a couple of minor, very minor, physical issues that are just frustrating the hell out of me.

    This morning I went to raise the in-window blinds on my den window and the string broke, so the blinds don't work.  The house is almost 14 years old and I don't know if Pella still makes the blinds.  I asked my friend Carrie about it but have not heard back yet.

    I had 2 small jobs to do today.  Actually, they were Friday's chores that I never got to.

    Hang a shelf in the garage for my rechargeable batteries and chargers.  Clean out the trash bin in the kitchen.

    I brought my drill up, but forgot the bits.  I brought up the wrong length screw and the shelf  bracket did not hold.  I dropped a bit and could not find it.  My stud finder went dead and I had to get a battery.  My 10 minute project was now bordering 45 minutes and  I just gave up.

    I drove past the post office and did not stop to get a box to ship my knives in for sharpening.  The knives have been sitting on the nook table since Thursday, when I decided to send them away but the 5 boxes I tried were too big or too small.

    But the one big thing that has gotten me  down is my van key.

    I can't find it.

    I have looked in the car twice, but I am terrible at that.  Something could be right in front of me and I won't see it.

    I have looked in coats, sweatshirts, under tables........

    I look around and see all the crap I have not dealt with.  Dirty kitchen towels on the counter.  Papers on the counter.  Papers on the table.  Grocery bags on the chair instead of back in the car.  (I even checked the bags for the key.)

    It is so damn frustrating to be me!  Sometimes I can't stand myself for being the way I am.

    I tried to find some solace in a cold root beer, but that hasn't helped.

    We are now down to 1 van key.  If I can't find mine, I guess I will have to order a new one, which will be at least $100.  As soon as I get a replacement, the missing key will magically appear.

    Where have I looked?

    Jackie's purse, the hook where it hangs, the floor under the hook, in the car, (twice) on the lawn mower, on the golf cart, under those 2, under the dresser, in the washer, in the dryer, 4 pairs of pants, 6 sweatshirts, 3 jackets, the desk in the den, the dining room table, behind the bench in the laundry room, (maybe I will pull that all the way out to be sure.  I can dust the floor too.) in the bathroom, pantry.

    No place.

    And I don't know when I used it last.  When we went Saturday, Jackie had her key in her purse so we could start the car.  But I thought I had my key.  

    Freaking impossible.

    And confessing all this does NOT make me feel any better.

    Maybe tomorrow things will seem brighter.

    Oh.  The Cubs were losing 11-2 when we quit watching.

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace

Sunday, April 12, 2026

stand off

We had a stand off at the house today 


    I let Beth out in the back yard before noticing the 2 Canada geese.

    They were out by my natural garden, but advancing slowly toward the bird feeders.

    Meanwhile, Beth stood vigilant.

    She did not bark  She did not growl.  She stared them down.

    And the geese stared back.

    Neither side moved. 

    This went on for a few minutes until I called Beth in, and the geese wandered off, obviously terrified of our ferocious pup!

    I mowed today.  I really don't get my front yard.  There are huge bare spaces, and not just where Beth goes, but even out of her area.

    I think I will get a soil sample.  Then in the fall have the front aerated and heavily reseeded.

    I am not a big fan of lawns, but we have one and I would like it to be nice.

    I also broke one of my pledges today.

    Last year I pledged never to mow on a Sunday.

    When Julia was in Switzerland, she learned about quiet days.  On Sundays you can't mow, blow, use power tools outside, wash your car, (people play music when they wash their car. I guess) or do anything that makes a lot of noise.

    The result:  You can sit outside and hear the birds.  Outside tine is actually relaxing!

    So last year I pledged not to mow on Sundays.  But the forecast this week is for rain almost every day and my grass was long.  So, I broke my pledge.  

    We had a "what's for supper" moment today.

    Jackie was a little out of sorts, and all the things I suggested were met with a "Meh."

    We decided on grilled cheese with bacon.

    I thawed the bacon, got out the skillet, opened the bread and went, "ewwww" .....  the bread was green.  

    So I improvised.  We had them in soft taco shells.

    It wasn't bad.

    But tomorrow I have to go to the store to buy bread and some other stuff.  Hopefully the bread will not turn green before we use it all.

    Peace and Love

        Especially Peace


Saturday, April 11, 2026

oops and thanks

 I am thankful for friends today


    We were going to a celebration of life for a friend's father today.

    All was going well, until it wasn't.

    I transfer Jackie several times a day.  Bed to chair, chair to toilet, chair to shower, chair to chair, chair to car.......at least a dozen times a day.

    Normally it is not an issue.

    Today was not normal.

    Going from the potty to the wheelchair, I hit the edge of the seat on the wheelchair.  She slid off.

    Jackie did not hit the ground hard, but she hit the ground.

    I called Julia and Emily, but they were on their way to the same event and were in Sycamore.

    I could not call Kevin, because it was his father in law's celebration of life.

    I called Curt, who was working.  He offered to bring a couple of guys out in the ambulance but Jackie said no. By the way, that is a service the department does.  We have had them out before.

    Went to call Todd down the road, but discovered I did not have his number for some reason.  (If you are reading this, please PM me your number.)

    I called Sheri, and she was just taking a dish out of the oven and said she would come ASAP.

    I also called Kimberly, because it really takes 3 to get her up ion the bathroom.

    When we all gathered, it took about 2 minutes to get her up and into the chair.  (We put her feet on the bottom of the wall.  2 people lift and the third shoves the chair into position.  Easy Peasy!!

    Curt checked back with me to be sure we got her up.  I should have told him as soon as we did it so he did not have to wonder if I was calling back.

    Sometimes it does take a village.

    I am just grateful we have people in our village willing and able to help.

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace


Friday, April 10, 2026

school dazed

 The museum hosted a third grade class today


    People were a little worried:  Yesterday's class was "high spirited."

    I joined the volunter force today, and the kids were great!

    Most of them (they are 9 or 10 year olds) were polite and attentive.  They asked questions and even answered questions.

    It reminded me how much fun  that age group can be.

    I missed teaching for about 3, maybe 4, minutes.

    Wasn't it cool watching Artemis land?  I'm glad they made it home safely.  I can't imagine the courage they have. I also can't imagine what the Earth looks like from the moon. What a fantastic adventure that must have been.

    We have a furry, fuzzy cloth rabbit that is part of our Easter decorations.  It has been on the floor for 2 weeks now, but tonight Beth decided it was her toy!  She carried it around and did a little chewing on it before I could get it away.

    I put it on the coffee table and she kept putting her feet on the table, looking at it.  So I moved it to the dining room table.

    When we went downstairs to play tonight, she spent a lot of time sniffing along the edge of the room, even getting up on her hind legs at one point.

    Not sure what that means.  Do we have a mouse?  A rabbit?  A gorilla?  Time will tell.

    I had some forms to drop off with our tax guy in Rockford.  The office is on a four lane road, 2 northbound, 2 southbound, with a wide median that people use when turning left.

    I had just pulled on to the median to turn left when an oncoming red van moved on to the median with their left signal on.  I pulled back into the traffic lane, luckily there were no other cars, and the red van continued before turning RIGHT from the median!  Crazy!!

    I went in the office and gave the forms to the person there.  She checked to make sure we had everything signed.

    Before I left I said to her, "Do I look really pale?"

    She looked at me and didn't say a word.

    Then I said, "If I do it's because between the IRS and gas prices, I am being bled dry!"

    She was still laughing when I left.

    I have the voice text option in the car.  I texted Julia and  Emily to see if they needed anything in Rockford, but the text went to a different Emily. She thanked me for the offer, but she was good.  Julia just sent a rolling eyes emoji, which I saw after I parked.

    I had 1 task to do today, but with the drive to Rockford, the school group, and my general laziness..... I did not get it done.  

    Hopefully tomorrow.

    And I am looking for some hay.....maybe 4 bales.  

    I know!  It's not the hay season.

    I never time things right.

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace



Thursday, April 9, 2026

what a day

 Today was a beautiful day


    My doctor's appointment went well, I had a caramel Frappuccino, museum meeting went fairly quickly and I even got to set a fire!

    I burned off my native garden area.  I wanted to burn that and the field area that I am letting go natural.  But with all the rain, the field greened up and there is very little to burn.

    So I focused on the native plant plot, which is smaller and filled with more fuel for a  fire.

    I sometimes get a little critical of my fellow humans.

    For example, I stopped at WM for a few items.

    As I was leaving a younger (really, at my age everyone seems younger) couple was also leaving.

    They had 1 Walmart bag.  

    I had 2 of my own bags, plus a pack of napkins that did not fit in ta bag.

    I emptied my cart in the store and went out to my car.

    The younger ones wheeled the cart, with their 1 bag, out to their car.  Seriously?  They could not carry a bag of groceries?  

    What is this world coming to.

    While I was checking out a friend said,"Hi, Terry!"

    I was so startled I ended up t tapping  the package of napkins 3 times. 

    An associate came over and said, "I saw your problem.  I took one off so you are only charged for 2."

    I siad I only had one.

    So she took another off.

    I had to get Jackie something from Ulta.  I checked out and t hey asked for a phone number for rewards.  It is Emily's account.  As I struggled with getting the number, the cute young thing behind the counter asked if I wanted her to help.

    I gave her the phone and likely split......she had the number.

    I might go back into the garage tonight to find our rain gauge.  It is supposed to be a drenching rain tonight.  If I can find the gauge, I will put it out.

    Hope you enjoyed today....tomorrow may be a wet one.

    And a wet one would sure be better than the April 9 we had some 11 years ago.

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace