C'mon TD

 Sometimes I am very, very stupid

    Feel free to dispute that.

    But what I did today was beyond stupidity.

    I was taking Beth to the groomers.  We had a 3 p.m. appointment.

    I go Flagg Road to Brooklyn Road, Brooklyn Road to Reynolds Road. East on Reynolds Road to Mulligans Grove.

    But there was a train stopped over the crossing on Brooklyn Road.  A very long train.

    Last time that happened I ended up going to Ashton to get across.

    But I know there is an overpass on Thorp Road.  At least I think it is Thorp Road.

    So I headed that direction  found the overpass and after going over the tracks, I looked to my right and saw the train there.  I figured it was also blocking that crossing

    I Googled the groomers.  I called.  I  explained that I would be late.

    The dash screen showed the groomers straight ahead.  So I continued straight ahead.

    The paved road became a gravel road, which turned into a one lane road, which crossed a paved road.

    That is where I became stupid.

    I know the only paved road I cross is Reynolds Road.

    But the map showed the groomers straight ahead.

    I continued down the cowpath.Vultures began circling the van.  Something was wrong.

    I never asked directions!  The map was  just a general area map.

    I turned around, went back 2.5 miles and turned east on Reynolds Road.

    We got there abut 10 minutes late. 

    When I picked Beth up, I took a road that was alongside the railroad tracks.  What I found is the road curved, and the train I thought was blocking the road after coming over the overpass  wasn't, because the road curved.   If I had gone that way I would not have been driving down 1 lane gravel roads in the middle of cornfields.

    My plan was to pick up Beth, make supper, then go into the garage. cut up cardboard, and plant what is left of the plants I bought 2 weeks ago.

    I could not find my box cutter.  10 minutes of frustration looking for it.

    I decided to focus on the positive things I did today.  I planted 4 pots, hooked up my front porch hose, washed and dried the sheets, made supper and am about to wash the dishes.

    Tomorrow I am going to buy a new box cutter, put it on a string and hang it where I can find it.

    As soon as I do that, the old one will surface.

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace

What??????

We went from a clean kitchen to a mess 

    The original plan was to go to Julia's for tacos.

    Our niece Laurie is coming to meet niece Cindy and they are taking a plane to Spain to do The Walk.

    Ok, I can't remember it.  El Camino Real?  El Camino was a Chevy product at one time, and it may, or may not, be the name of the walk to a famous shrine along the Atlantic Ocean.  It is a popular walk for religious and sightseeing purposes.

    Anyway, she was driving from around Columbus Ohio and Julia was going to make tacos for us all.

    But her ETA was after 7 and Jackie and I don't like eating that late.

    So I made dinner and we ate at 7:30.  I know.

    I was going to grill outside, but the wind was pretty strong and I did not know if I could keep the grill going, so I used our air fryer. 

    Steak turned out pretty good.  

    But now I have a pan for the fries, a pot for the veggie, and the air fryer to clean and I have about as much ambition as a toad flattened on the highway of life.

    Today I picked up doggie do and watered the plants I have not yet potted.

    Sadly, I watched the Cubs for a while.  

    Hopefully tomorrow I will actually do something besides complain.

    Mainly I need to get the pots planted with the plants I bought 2 weeks ago,  

    Just can't seem to get going on it all this year.

    Is that a sign?

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace

what a week

This week ran the full gamut

    Celebrating my birthday, a friend's retirement party, and a funeral service gave the week a happy/sad feel.  

    My friend Beth is retiring and there was a party for her and another  middle school teacher.  It was a nice chance to see former co-workers and old friends.

    Another retiree from another year told me a funny story.

    The teacher was retiring at the end of the year, which was a week away.   Kids were tuning out.  Not much effort was being shown.

    The teacher blurted, "You don't seem to give a shit about any of this."

    As soon as the class was dismissed, they went to the principal and told that person what they had done,  in case parents called and complained.

    The principal said, "I've got that covered.  I will just tell them that I am handling it and that you won't be teaching in the district next year."

    Problem solved.

    Sadly, the funeral service was for a former student.  He always had a great attitude and a good heart. I don't think I ever saw him angry or not smiling.

    About 18 moths ago he was diagnosed with cancer.  

    Yet through all the treatments and hospitalizations, his parents and family said he still smiled  He thanked the medical staff who treated him.  He never said, "Why me?"

    He saw joy everywhere.

    I wish I was more like him.

    And the world too.

Peace and Love

    Especially Love

 

Oh my

 Sometimes I wonder about people

    I know prom is a big time for a high schooler.

    Asking someone out. Getting asked out.  Renting a tux.  Buying flowers.  Getting a dress.

    Getting a dress.

    I read a story today about a dressmaker in the south suburbs of Chicago who took orders for custom prom dresses.

    And she didn't deliver.  Several orders were not ready in time for prom despite the orders being placed months ago.    

    One mother said the dressmaker told her the $2,500 dress would be ready for prom.  It wasn't.

    I'm thinking....$2,500 for a dress?  For a high school dance?  Ye gads!

    The woman had no choice but to get another dress that only cost $2,200.  For a dress!!

    The mom spent $4,700 for her daughter to go to prom!

    Another story dealt with a park district supervisor who chartered a helicopter to land for prom pictures!  A freaking helicopter!!

    Might not have been a good idea.  The supervisor was cited by local law enforcement for the landing.  And the helicopter pilot was charged with disorderly conduct.  Seems there were baseball games going near the area where the chopper landed.

    On the plus side, it only cost $800 for the helicopter rental.

    I know sometimes it is hard to say no when you are a parent.  But there are times when you have to say no!  Especially when it comes to expensive dresses.

    Then again, maybe it wasn't the prom goers choice  in the first place.  

    I went to prom. 

    Yes, I had a date.  Yes, it was formal.

    Yes, I had a t terrible time.

    But that is another story.

    Peace and Love

        Especially Peace

gimme, gimme

We have been flooded with donation requests 

    Almost daily, we get a request for funds in the mail.

    Today we got a pen from Doctors' Without Borders.

    It's not just a pen.  There is a flashlight on one end.  Pull the lid off and there is a pen.  Pull the other end off and there is a screwdriver.  Pull the screwdriver out a nd there is a Phillips screwdriver.

    It's really a net little tool,

    It makes me wonder how much money they spend on fundraising.  

    We do support a variety of charities.  I assume one of the ones we support has sold our name to a mailing list.

    In the past week we have gotten them from heart people, cancer people, zoo groups, homeless shelter groups, nature groups.......and those are the ones I remember!

    We have our favorite charities and we give to them.

    But dang, this is a nice pen/flashlight/screwdriver thing.

    Speaking of money.

    I had a museum board meeting tonight.

    Jackie has not been feeling well for a couple of days and has not eaten much.  She texted me and asked me to bring her a hamburger for supper.

    I went to Culver's to get a burger and fries.  I also thought I would get a chocolate malt for me.

    Got out of the car and was walking toward the door and discovered I did not have my wallet.

    I tried ordering on line and paying with a credit card, but I could not remember the third set of numbers.

    So we had grilled cheese instead. 

    I would have rather had the malt.

    I might have to start hiding money in the car for times like that.

Peace and Love

        Especially Peace

oh no

 This was a nightmare of a day

    Last night Jackie kept saying she did not feel well.  

    She went to bed about 10:30.  At about 6:30 she woke me up to go to the bathroom.

    When she was done, she wanted to go back to bed.

    I called our morning helper and told her not to come.

    We went back to bed about 7:15. Beth was even sleeping between us.

    I got up and went to make my morning tea while she slept.

    It was 12:30!

    I sat down to drink my tea and thought, maybe I should check on her.  I did.  I could see she was breathing, so I went back to my tea.

    The phone rang, which woke her up at about 12:45.

    By the time we were both showered and ready for the day, it was about 2.

    I was still tired!

    I managed to get 4 loads of laundry done.  I hate doing that many loads, but I sort of lost track of things....like clean socks and underwear for me and clean dish towels.  

    What a day.

    I am worried  I won't be able to sleep tonight.  Afterall, I slept over 12 hours last night.  

    She is feeling better tonight.  Not great, but better.  Hopefully tomorrow she will be back to normal.

    I, on the other hand, will never be normal.

    Peace and Love

        Especially Peace

Wordle woes

 I enjoy playing the word game Wordle

    But  sometimes I get confounded, again, by the English language.

    Take a word like brown.  Ends with o.w.n.  That spells own.  As in, I own it.

    But brown does not have own in it!  It has a different sound.

    Blown.  Flown. Grown. Brown?  Clown??

    Same pattern, different sounds.

    Do I have a wound on my arm, or a wound?    Are you a present or are you just present?  And did you present your present?

    Confusing.

    No wonder people have trouble learning the language.

    I have noted this before.  In Dickens' Christmas Carole he writes he dont' and she don't.  When did that become improper grammar and we were taught to say he doesn't/she doesn't?  Who decided that?

    I doesn't know.

    I guess it isn't r really a problem with Wordle.  Although sometimes I get really stumped and have to think!  I am not good at thinking!  It makes my head hurt!

    A final thought/question for the night.  In our kitchen we have several canned lights.  We have been in the house almost 14 years.

    One of the lights burned out.

    I don't think the lights in the cans are LED, but I am not sure.

    What I do know is when I work up the gumption to replace the bulb, the new bulb will be a different color than the rest.

    That will drive me crazy.

    I don't want to replace all of them, because only 1 doesn't work.  Yeet I don't like having 1 dead bulb in the ceiling. 

    I will spend days agonizing over this.

    But I won't replace the burned out bulb until I need to.

    Maybe never?

Peace and Love

    Especially Peace